How do you get ladies to be interested in meeting us?
We let it be known, through local ads, that we are a group of American and Canadian guys who are looking to make connections. The ladies who respond are told that our men are seeking excitement and fun but also wish to build meaningful relationships. The ladies also want excitement, fun and new experiences. Many prefer to build long term relationships.
Why can't I see the profiles of the ladies for my adventure?
We open the profile view 60 days prior to the adventure date. Most ladies join in the 3-4 weeks leading to the adventure. Ladies join if they are not in a relationship and would like to have one. That is not something that can they can plan in advance.
Who are the ladies?
They are usually younger (21-35). We restrict attendance to women of 21 or older. Many have degrees and even advanced degrees. Some are working. others are students.
What are the ladies seeking?
The ladies are looking for a better life, the same as our Hombres. They are comfortable or even prefer older men. They are interested in an Hombre who is caring and safe and can provide for them. Many are open to the idea of relocating with their Hombre or having their Hombre visit them from time to time. Most are not fixated on a committed relationship. They are satisfied with enjoying life and new experiences. Those who prefer a long term relationship, generally view it as a bonus rather than a criteria.
Do you vet the ladies?
We absolutely do validate the identity of the women who are invited to our gala evenings. Admission is by invitation, only. The ladies are required to complete a questionnaire and provide photos, before being interviewed. We make sure each lady would be a fit to one Hombre or another.
How do you ensure health standards?
We Don’t! It is very likely that you will be intimate with one or more of your connections. Practice safe sex! Remember! what goes on your Hombres Adventure must stay on your Hombres Adventure.
What are the expectation of the ladies?
The ladies are aware that the guys are seeking intimacy. Some may be open to staying over night. Others may not be free to stay. Some may be able to spend the days with an Hombre. Others attend school or work and may be available some days or on the weekend.
Do the ladies have financial expectation?
It is customary to gift your intimate connection. The nature and amount depend on the type of relationship you set. Monetary gifts are usually moderate by American and Canadian standards. Chocolates and flowers are always welcomed. Please treat your companion kindly and generously.
Can an unregistered friend just join me at the Adventure?
NO! It is too disruptive. Only Hombres that have pre-registered and only ladies that have been accepted will be permitted to attend.
Can my companion join me for meals or excursions?
Of course. That is a great opportunity for you to connect. You will be required to pay for the activity for which she joins. The additional fees for each meal and activity is noted on the itinerary.
What if I prefer to do my own thing with my companion?
Do what makes you happy. But if you are not with the group, it is best that your remain at the hotel. If you do go out, please let us where you are going.
How do I make sure my trip is discreet?
You payment receipt will be from "The Guys' Great Getaway". You will also have a public-appropriate version of your itinerary on the Website of the same name. As far as anyone around you is concerned, you will be on a guys trip, having good clean fun and making some new friends. As for the friends you come with, it is up to you to include friends you trust.
Do they speak English?
Some ladies do, others do not. We do ask about their English facility, in the questionnaire and at the interview.
What if I am not clicking with my intimate connection?
You absolutely deserve to find your exciting match. If it does not click with one woman, be honest with her and tell her that you are looking for something else. Gift her, as you would, in any case. That will mitigate her disappointment and you can then be free to connect with another lady. We provide that opportunity to you.
What if I am looking to experiment?
If you wish to make connections with different women, that is your choice. You will have such opportunity on our Hombres Adventures. If you wish to experiment with intimacy, ask your connection if she is open to it. Latina ladies are generally open to experimentation, as well. While some may already have had those experiences; others may welcome the new experience. You may be pleasantly surprised to have your companion introduce you to some experiences that you may want. Life is short, go for it!
Please keep in mind that Hombres Adventures does not permit illegal activities, of any kind, even if consensual! Please remember that an Hombres Adventure is about excitement and pleasure. This applies to our ladies, as well. Treat your connection with respect and affection and she will reward you ten-fold!
How many ladies would be attending/
Generally, we strive for a ratio close to two ladies for every hombre. For large groups of about 20 Hombres, we may have just 30 ladies attending. That is more than enough to ensure that every Hombre gets his choice of a companion.
Can I pick any girl?
You should absolutely approach the women that you have matched with. But you are entitled to introduce yourself to any other woman you deem interesting, if she is not engaged with another Hombre. However, it is the lady that chooses. No worries, your intimate connections will approach you quickly enough.
What if a woman I like is not interested in me?
In all likelihood, at least one of the women that you have pre-matched with will end up with you. In the unlikely occurrence that one of those women is no longer, interested, move on. We always invite women who are not yet matched. Any of them would be delighted to be with you.